I don’t understand why people trip out on me when I tell them that my recent ex and I are strictly just friends. None of that on and off shit, none of that friends with benefits shit either. It’s like, people assume that just because I still spend time with him, I’m back with him. Why can’t people just understand that it’s really not like that and that we really are just friends? Just because we broke up, doesn’t mean we want each other out of our lives. I made sure that our relationship didn’t end on bad terms because I wanted to remain in his life. I am glad that we are still good friends, and that we didn’t break up with hard feelings and hatred towards each other like some relationships.
Why waste your time hating someone you once loved so much. I’d rather let the negativity go and form a friendship rather then losing him permanently. I refuse to let people walk out of my life because to me, any problem can be solved as long as equal effort is contributed.
I feel really blessed to still have him in my life. He’s like my best friend now, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. He is so good to me. He always makes sure I’m in tip top shape and that I’m happy and smiling. No matter what, I know he’s going to be there for me whenever I need something. He’s one of the people I know will never abandon me for any reason. We hang out at least once a week, catch up, and he still treats me like a princess. And I appreciate and love him so much for that.
I can’t explain how happy I am about the fact that after all the shit we’ve been through, we’re both willing to put it all behind us to stay in each other’s lives.
Friendships should last longer than relationships anyway. Haha. <3
